深入人心的电影。一个人一生都在成长或改变,前提是自省才能自新。大家庭里,外婆一直都是明白人,对于女儿,she could have done better. 所以决定改变外孙,让他远离losers, 学好,然后才有机会。那个计算器和那顿饭,之后才有了从军和Yale Law School。Where you came from is who you are, but you can make choices to become who you want to be. 姐姐承受更多,更有理由放弃,但她选择了原谅,因为妈妈的过往比他们还不堪。I can't defend her, but I'm trying to forgive her.还有女友,更是体贴,也是因为类似的奋斗和挣扎的过往...